Judgement is a relative term because a person’s judgemental
skills get structured with all the bricks being the past
experiences & the opinions developed from those
experiences. For example, if in your childhood your sibling
tried to scare you from a spider, you’ll spend your whole life
with a phobia of spiders. Along with the experiences, many
other aspects that shape us, our opinions, our thinking, our
way of life, our patterns of coming to a decision, our pattern
of analysing a problem etc., are generally the society, the
culture, the traditions, the norms of the house or the family
we are brought up in, the school we go to, the kind of
teachers we get (because teachers are role models & they
play a vital role in profiling our brains as well as the way we
adopt habits & adapt to different things in life), the sort of
company we surround ourselves with, the ideas we absorb
from our peers, etc. As is a common practice, during early
childhood, boys are taught that they’re guys & so they
shouldn’t cry, that they should be strong & that crying is for
girls. Therefore, from this, boys derive that girls cry & those
who cry are weak. This later effects their personality q&
develops in them a sense of superiority. Their opinions on
genders are based on the tiny thing they learnt as kids, i.e.,
boys are strong & girls are weak.
